I’m single! It’s not really a PSA or anything but for me it is to myself. I’m single. I’ve been in a relationship since I was 19 and here I am a week away from my 27th birthday and I’m single. It’s like I knew I was, but it’s finally settling in. I’m sitting here like how do I do this? And although it’s been almost a year since I’ve been claimed to someone I think it’s just now settling in. I’m single. What does that mean? I finally realize that although I’m single, I’m not alone.
I dealt with those feelings of being without someone and feeling alone. Due to my situation, I felt like I needed affirmation in so many ways. Someone showing me attention was like amazing to me and that’s probably because of how I felt about myself at the time. Now I feel settled in, for a lack of a better phrase.
It’s like when you buy a new house and you’re trying to clean it up and get it all situated. After everything has been arranged how you like it, you finally feel settled in. That’s where I am. I feel settled into this new position as a young single woman. But not just single woman but a woman of virtue. A woman of power. A woman of influence, destiny, and purpose. So now what?
I’m in a season where it’s about me and what I want. This has been new for me because I have never had a chance to just figure out what Jaymi wants. I stated in my previous post how I took time out just to heal and figure out who I am (which I will still write about later), and in that time I got settled in.
I wrote out my dreams and got settled in with who I am, what I want, and where I’m going. I’m so excited about it and I love that you all are on this journey with me. And for all of you who are trying to figure out this single walk as well, be encouraged and know that God has the best for you! Don’t give up, great things are going to happen. Get ready because God is about to even blow my mind and I pray what He does and is doing in my life inspires you!